When people call us about taking singing lessons, they often ask "what if I feel insecure when I sing?" So, here's the thing: almost everyone who wants to become a better singer feels insecure when they sing. Really! Linda Ronstadt (1946) is a great example of the value of pushing through insecurity. Linda is one of the most versatile and successful American vocalists of all time. Her four-decade career produced sales of more than 50 million albums and earned her ten Grammy Awards, the National Medal of Arts, and membership in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.A Mexican American, she was primarily a ballad singer. She also excelled at singing country, rock’n’roll, big band, jazz, opera, Broadway standards, and Mexican tunes. Once you’ve heard her sing, you’re not likely to forget her.So, why are we talking about her here? For two reasons:
Before we go on, please take just a minute to listen to “When Will I Be Loved.” Hearing her sing will give this post far more meaning for you – and you’ll definitely get our point! https://youtu.be/r4TdEG2drsU
It’s hard to believe that someone with such a voice could experience serious insecurity, but she did. A New Yorker interview quotes Ronstadt's former manager as saying that Linda "would see people whispering at her concerts and imagine they were saying 'She's the worst singer I ever heard.'"Linda admitted that "she just didn't feel like she could sing well enough". She would overcome her fears, she said, by saying, “just breathe and sing.” If you watch carefully you can see this in her demeanor in some of her videos.
Most of us are victims of doubting minds at one time or another and for some, it’s a lifetime battle. How do you develop the will to just breathe and sing? How can you keep on keeping on, even though your mind is telling you you’re not capable?You develop your will by doing.You develop your will to do by doing, and each time you push past your mind and “Just Do It” (as Nike says), you get stronger. You build your muscle – you actually build your ability to succeed.This just might be one of life’s biggest lessons, and it’s been summed in a thousand different ways over the centuries:
That brings us to a quote by modern-day author Richie Norton, about building your muscle – the perseverance to continue:
The good life is not built on a foundation of ease... it's the hard times that give us a rock-solid foundation.
Along with the fact that perseverance develops your muscle, there is another solid reason why you should. It’s summed up in these two quotes:
Failure is a terrible option, wouldn’t you agree? Unfortunately, if it’s practiced enough it can become as strong a habit as success. So it's your choice -- which would you like to develop? Of course, we thought so.
Of course, music lessons aren’t the only way to develop your will. In reality, working hard to develop yourself in anything will help you develop your will. But music has an important advantage: making music is really fun to do.Think about it. What if you were told you should exercise to keep your body healthy, but you weren’t inspired by the gym or running the track? Would you do it consistently, day in and day out, forever?Probably not. But what if you loved to play soccer and you kept losing out to faster, more agile players, others who were clearly more fit than you? If it was obvious to you that you needed to get into better shape to compete … would you do it?Of course. They seem to be two different things, but they’re not. Exercise is exercise … it all depends on your motivation.
From Linda: “I was about four. I remember thinking, 'I'm a singer, that's what I do.' It was like I had become validated somehow, my existence affirmed."Linda knew, in her four-year-old innocence, that she had to sing, and she was fortunate to have a very musical family, so music was an intrinsic part of her life. Her insecurity could never stop her – she was too determined. She had the motivation of making music.
Just like Linda Ronstadt, many musicians truly have no choice. Their passion and talent lie in making music and there’s no staying away from it. Here’s another video of Linda singing “The Tracks of My Tears”, a super popular song in the 80s: https://youtu.be/r4TdEG2drsU.And finally, one tune from an entire album she recorded in Spanish, expressing the blues via her Mexican heritage: Por Un Amorhttps://youtu.be/rJfXiOrK7t4.So now consider, this multi-talented woman really thought she couldn’t sing yet produced some of the most popular music of her time. Amazing! Consider how different her life would have been if she'd let her mind stop her from singing.If you’d like to get some more 70s pop, here’s Linda Ronstadt Greatest Hits Full Album https://youtu.be/bfCx9jBa2d0.
If you’ve been thinking about taking vocal lessons but are feeling a little inadequate or insecure, let us assure you: most singers feel inadequate, at one time or another. But our talented vocal coaches know how to bring out the you in your singing, and there’s nothing like success to motivate.Developing perseverance is just one of the benefits of learning music. Contact us to learn more about singing lessons. We'll help you build your muscle at the Studio -- no matter what age you are!
